The Art of Talk

i have suffered from being misunderstood recently, because of few colleagues said something unfair behind me.

i can deal with business or bear hard work, but not people's gossip.
i am pretty bad at social intercourse since i was a little girl, even now i still don't know how to get rid of those.

When i feel bad, i reflect on myself in the past.
"Did i be rude to my friends or someone?"
"Did i say something bad or wrong behind my friends or someone?"
"Did i judge my friends or someone unfairly, and hurt their feelings?"
"Did i......"

Words aren't swords, but they can injure people without bleeding, but severely.
Words aren't stoves, but they can warm people from inside to outside, even in a world of ice and snow, invisible, but real.

People in Taiwan always pray to God for meeting great guys who can help them in a difficult time, and get rid of all bad things which come from bad guys.

i try to be others' "the great guy", and warn myself not to be "a bad guy".