Thank you all ありがとう

Japanese singer 三浦明利
Song ありがとう〜私を包むすべてに 《感謝那些包容我的一切》




This is a very beautiful song sung in Japanese.

This sweet song makes me think about my life experience.
i was not a sweet or thoughtful person before. i kept doing something wrong to hurt family and friends who love me very much.

Long long time ago, i still remember one night, when i did something wrong and hope that others could forgive me, but at the same time, i was angry at someone else, and scold that one for doing something wrong. ~~~~ i notice that there were two roles in me, both am a forgivee who needs to be forgiven, and am a forgiver who can forgive others.
i reflected myself ... if i hope that others could forgive me, and then i should forgive others first. After all, that mistake was not a big one, why i didn't want to forgive he/she?! When i think of this, i feel calm in my mind and heart, and everything goes well.

i want to thank all family, friends, and any one who forgave me, and thank God for His love.

人非聖賢，一生中大錯小錯常不知不覺越積越多...。
當我們意識到自己的錯，並悔悟時，總想祈求對方的原諒。其中，有些錯可以彌補，但很多卻都是無法彌補的。所以一定要提醒自己更謹慎小心，尤其感情。

記得一位好友曾說，第一次犯錯是不懂，第二次是不小心，但他會提醒自己，絕對不犯第三次同樣的錯誤。
他的話，常在我心裡迴響著，尤其是當我一再在同一個地方跌倒，自我反省時。感謝他，my friend Chiayu.


至於別人對自己的傷害、誤解，如果能交換立場～假設對方尚未發現自己的錯誤，就像我們犯錯的當下，只是時間還沒到。～這樣一想，是不是就比較能體諒對方呢？


我曾經出現這樣既想祈求別人的諒解，但同時又氣憤地指摘另一個人的錯誤。煩躁的情緒起伏不定，直到夜深人靜，突然...發覺自己太可笑也太自私了。～怎能又希望別人原諒自己，同時卻又不肯原諒別人呢？～


「又不是什麼大不了的深仇大恨，有什麼好不原諒的？」當下念頭一轉，心情迅速變好。

心念轉，幸福跟著來。－靜思語

一接觸到負面資訊和情緒，便觀察自身，並想，雖然不能立刻改變世界，卻可以馬上修正自己。因此，壞事可能變成好事；負面能量也得以轉向正面。如果，每個人每一次都能這樣地想和做，而不僅在情緒中指責和發洩，誰能說這不是在改變世界呢？－王菲

相愛的人會記得對方做過的一切，好的壞的都很深刻，能夠繼續相愛並一起生活下去的原因，不是去遺忘forget曾經發生過的一切，而是諒解forgive. - a film [ Indecent Proposal ]